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Dear
Friends,
I thought you would like
to hear about something that took place at Guru last week that
stands out as a further sign of hope in the future of this
School.
As you are aware, part of
the culture of the School in recent years was violence between
the Grade 10s and the Grade 11s. This was the case even this
year. The last major skirmish was in July afterwhich we met with
the two groups and their parents and gave an ultimatum that any
repetition would result in immediate expulsion. Subsequently the
Bishop met with the Grade 11s when he paid his Pastoral Visit to
the School and impressed upon them the need to set a good
example to those who were junior to them. After these
interventions the conflict ceased. I reluctantly suspended one
or two boys who were ring leaders among the Grade 11s for two
months in the Third Term and the problems decreased
tremendously. (You will be happy to hear that they both returned
for the Pilot Exam somewhat changed and gave no trouble to us at
all!)
The
Grade 11 O/L Pilot Exam was held between the 12th and 17th of
November. All the fears and apprehensions of Staff were
confounded by the manner in which the children conducted
themselves and presented themselves. There was not one problem
of significance. Laus Deo!
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We
decided to have a Valedictory Assembly on Friday 26th, the first
of its kind, at which the School had an opportunity to bid
farewell to the senior Class. The Assembly itself and what
followed will be forever etched in the memories of all those who
witnessed it. I give below an account of the events.
'The
valedictorians were led in to the Foster Hall by the Headmaster
and Staff and seated in the front rows. Mr Panini Edirisinghe
then movingly read out Warden Buck's farewell message 'You
belong to one of the best Schools in the world...' afterwhich
the Headmaster delivered a valedictory address in which he
exhorted to the Class of 2007 to be Bearers of Light and Truth
when they left the portals of STCG and went to other
institutions of learning to complete their education. The Head
Prefect replied on behalf of the Class and in an emotional
speech not only thanked the Staff for their selfless service but
also sought pardon for the many wrongs that had been done by the
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Then
the Chaplain said a special Prayer of Thanksgiving and
pronounced a blessing on the Class afterwhich the Headmaster,
Mr. Jacques Huyghbaert, the Chaplain, Fr Harold Goodchild and
the Supervisory Staff handed out lighted candles to each of the
outgoing class as a symbol of what they were called upon to do
on leaving Guru.While they held lighted candles the College
Oriental Music Group sang an enchanting lyric specially written
for the occassion by one of the outgoing class, the gist of
which was a word of thanks to the alma mater for all that
had been given to them while they schooled here and a promise to
never let her down. It was hard to spot a dry eye among the
outgoing Class. Next to the haunting strains of an inspiring
piece of music the Headmaster handed the National and College
Flags to the outgoing Head Prefect and Senior Sacristan
respectively and led by them the Class of 2007, carrying their
lighted candles, filed out of the Hall behind the flag bearers
and out on to the steps where the Grade 10s, boys who had been
their bitter enemies earlier in the year accorded them a Guard
of Honour. At the foot of the steps the two flag bearers handed
the flags to two representatives of next year's senior class in
a symbolic act of passing the baton.
The Headmaster and staff
were then offerred betal by the outgoing Class (on their own
initiative) and a formal taking of leave in the traditional Sri
Lankan manner followed. Once the Staff had dispersed the
outgoing Class re-entered the Hall where for the next 30 minutes
or so the rest of the Middle & Upper Schools bade them farewell.
The expression of camaraderie that we saw in the Hall was
amazing. Boys who had beaten each other just a few months ago
were tearfully embracing each other as though they were best
friends parting.
This was one part of the
valedictory events of the day. The second followed that evening
when the Headmaster gave a formal dinner in the Dining Hall to
the outgoing Class together with the Boarding Staff. The
speeches made by both boys and masters reflected just how much
attitudes had changed and the culture different. The dinner was
followed by a brief time of revelry in which the Masters too
joined the dance! At the appointed time the Headmaster rang a
bell and the boys decently and orderly retired for the night.
After the last exam paper
the following morning the boys were packed and ready to go. One
final lunch in the Dining Hall took place where unexpectedly the
Grade 11s appeared to take leave of the boys who were staying
on. It was a moving time for they not only worshipped their
teachers (again!) but this time the Teachers were overwhelmed as
well. The students nearly brought the building down by a cheer
for the School that was rousing to say the least. There were
many tears, many bear-hugs and even the few parents who had come
to take their children home were caught up in the emotions. When
the first batch of boys, including the Head Prefect, walked to
the Main Gate to board their vehicles the entire student body
practically lined the path and they were waved off like heroes.'
[I have attached some photos. We have many more for those who
would like to have them.]
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Changing of the Guard Next Year's Class takes
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As I reflect on what
happened I can only thank God for having worked this miracle, a historic series
of events. What happened was a sign that a new culture exists at Guru. Even
members of staff who have been here for a very long time told me later that they
had never witnessed such events at the departure of an outgoing Class. For me it
is a vindication of the belief that both Jacques and I share that what this
School needs more than anything else is LOVE and lots of it. Some of the boys
who left were boys who we had been advised to sack when we took over the School.
These 'bad' boys turned out ok in the end, proving that everyone has the
capacity to change if given the chance and the right opportunities to do so.
Naming the biggest of our three horses Charity (Love) was apt for that is what
was needed. The power of love was amply shown last weekend and I for one thank
God for all that was possible. We can only pray that God will give those of us
who are here the strength to persevere in love, sometimes amidst challenges that
seem incapable of being transformed by love. When the history of the School is
updated the Class of 2007 will be remembered above everything else for the
healing and reconciliation with which they left this School - no vandalism, no
violence, no mayhem! Healing and Reconciliation. May this be the model for the
future years as well.
Many of you have been praying for Guru.
Thank you. Keep praying, for there is still much that has to be done, many
attitudes that need to be changed.
'For all that is past - Thanks! For all
that is yet to be - Yes!'
With warm regards,
Marc B.
Rev. Marc Billimoria
Headmaster
S. Thomas' College
Gurutalawa
Tel/Fax: (0094) 572245202
Email:
stcgurutalawa@gmail.com,
pirosha@sltnet.lk
Website:
www.stcguru.com

Guard of Honour by the Grade 10s

The Class of 2007 with the Staff |